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Being “that girl” or the girl who gets things done and stays focused doesn’t come from perfection or aesthetics. It comes from honesty, discipline, and believing in yourself.
Here’s the realistic version, the one you can actually stick to. 

1. Have faith in yourself

Believing in yourself is literally the first step to getting anything done. If you don’t trust your abilities, you won’t take action. Confidence fuels consistency, it’s the foundation of your progress.

2. Set realistic objectives

Don’t sugarcoat things, and don’t adopt a victim mindset. If you didn’t do what you were supposed to do, own it. Understand why, reflect on it, and then do what needs to be done.
The goal isn’t to be harsh but balanced and truthful with yourself. 

3. Be honest with yourself

Believing in yourself is literally the first step to getting anything done. If you don’t trust yourself, you won’t take action. Confidence fuels consistency.

4. Put in the work

Nothing will get magically done without your effort. This is the part people skip. That girl isn’t different because she’s gifted, she just shows up, even when she doesn’t feel like it.

5. Be consistent and embody your new identity

Act like the girl who gets things done. Step into that version of yourself.
“Fake it until you make it” works when it comes from intention:
Believe you can become her, behave like her, and slowly, you’ll naturally turn into that version of you. 

Small realistic habits to help you become ‘that girl’:

• Do one thing every day that moves you toward your goals.
• Change one habit at a time, not ten.
• Keep promises you make to yourself.
• Protect your energy and avoid distractions.

Becoming that girl is not about perfection. It’s about consistency, self-awareness, and faith in who you’re becoming.